Family. We love them. But do they really love you when they leave the house early — before the Christmas dinner? What was going through their heads? Is the roast chicken cooked done or over done. It does look brownish black. What just happen here?

It’s not the next war zone, I have seen wars before, in the movies, but those wars are make believe in the movies, but each family should have a clairvoyant, like the one in Breaking Dawn part 2, if  you have already seen the movie that’s great. But it tells the battle of two families, the vampires and the wolves, the same thing in your family – the in laws. No one wants to beheaded in the family, that was in the movie, he lost the battle and he surrender before the real battle begins.  Do we need another war in the house?

We don’t care who was first born or the middle child, or the black sheep in the family. Can we all get along together and help each other out.  Parents are getting older and please do not give them heart attack during the dinner time. Some could choke on a wish bone. And no wish!

Communicate properly, one could be Dr. Phil as the monitor or Oprah Winfrey – yep someone could get a prize.  Be positive when communicate, never put people down. People self-esteem will be ruin and once it is ruin their lives would change. Drugs, alcohol, homelessness, depression and suicide will follow.  Just because you said something negative to that person and you will be responsible and probably that person will haunt you – the ghosts of Christmas.

Be positive to your family members and listen to them, if they have certain skill or talent help them out. Do not neglect one another. By the way, remember you are in your parents will.